Some Customers are Really Annoying When…
Today I had my first employee meeting with the crew of my new home and I think it went well. I’d be curious to know how they thought it went, but they’re still a little hesitant to talk to me yet. In their minds I just fired their old manager. That or I was demoted from a District Manager position to take their old manager’s job from him. Either way I’m still a little unapproachable feeling to them. That will probably get better with time.
The meeting was a lot more top down than a lot of my meetings will be in the future. There was very limited time that I could have it in and I had an awful lot of information to go over with them. Some were simple stylistic differences between me and their previous managers. I wanted to make sure they knew what my priorities were so they’d know my primary focus. Our priorities are very different and I wanted the crew to know mine.
At one point in the meeting toward the end one of the employees, when I stopped to take a drink and inhale a couple breaths, raised her hand tentatively, “I have a question?”
It wasn’t the question part of the meeting but I didn’t want to squash the first person to show any interest in speaking up so I replied with, “We’ll always have questions at the end but go for it. I can take another drink while I listen. Thanks for the break, my voice is tired.” I did a little laugh and waited.
“Some customers are really annoying when they ask… (whatever it was they were asking).”
“Oh! Well, see, here’s the thing,” I take another drink and pause as I think how I want to say this, “Customer service jobs are a lot like musical taste. Some people like Rock and some like Hip Hop. Some people think classical music is the bee’s knees and some people LOVE Jazz. And none of those people are more or less right than anybody else. Customer Service, and that’s what we are. We’re in retail and our job is to help the customer find what they want and make sure they leave happy. Now, I’m not being a smart-alek or a jerk when I say this because we need all sorts of people in this world, but if you really believe that customers are annoying then maybe Customer Service isn’t your calling. Now, I’m not saying it is or it isn’t, but if you dislike the customers then maybe a job where you don’t have to work with customers is a better idea. We’ve got custodians that have almost no interaction with customers, and if you’re interested in a transfer I’ll see what I can do.” I stopped to take another drink, holding up a hand to indicate I wasn’t finished yet.
She interjected, back-pedaling quickly, “I didn’t mean they’re annoying…” I swallowed my water quickly, shaking my head.
“No, I get it. You’re asked the same question over and over again, day after day and it gets repetitious right?”
“Exactly!” She said, pleased to see I understood.
“Perfect! That means you have new customers who haven’t asked you yet. This is the perfect time for you to help someone new and impress them with how we’re able to make this the best shopping experience they have all week. We have to answer those questions with a smile. It may be the fifteenth time you’ve heard that exact same question this week, but it’s probably the first time they’ve asked you today. Please, answer it like you care about the person asking it. Smile, nod a little bit, lean forward slightly, look at their face at least even if you don’t want to make eye-contact, and then, when they know they have your full attention, help them. Answer their question. You now know something about them you didn’t know before. Next time you see them, remember that question and call back to it. Mention it in someway, let them know you remember them and their question. Let them know the product’s not in, or hasn’t come in yet, or did come in, or we got something similar or that you’re still keeping an eye out. That does a lot of things. It lets them know they are important to you. It lets them know you haven’t forgotten them. It also, and this is the key part that addresses your question directly… it stops them from asking the question again. You’re anticipating their need and addressing it pro-actively. EVERYBODY likes that.”(1)
We then went on to talk about the various questions and I suggested they practice giving directions to the store coming from different directions because that’s one we get a lot and maybe they could jot down directions and put the different directions in our Pass Down Log so we could all help each other. (That was fresh in my mind because I had to interrupt the meeting to take a call and give directions to the store.)
I won’t lie… I will be watching for more chances to help that employee quit thinking Customers are a nuisance to be handled rather than an opportunity to be taken. There have been customer complaints, but I suspect most of the crew is willing to come around to my way of thinking.
(1) Two of the people at the meeting “got it” and I could see them nodding in agreement with me as I spoke. Two were thinking, and I’m SURE they were thinking it, that I don’t know what they have to deal with on a day to day basis since I’m all supervisory and I’ll come around to their way of thinking soon enough. Now, I know I know what they go through. I’ve worked in this store as Sales Associate and Manager for 7 years. Someone remind me to link to my meeting outline and see if I can’t dig up the source. It’s pretty good and I use it all the time in all my meetings.
Posted on Monday, September 13th, 2010
Under: Customer Service, Employees, Management | 3 Comments »

This is part 2 in my short series of posts revolving around my job change. They’re a cross between a farewell letter to my managers and a helpful advice from a lame-duck district manager. I’m torn between looking forward to the challenge of it, missing the people involved with my old job, and obviously the income change will take some getting used to. When you go from being over 11 stores to being over 1 there’s a definite change in disposable income! This post will be about the priorities of a manager. My 

